Sunday, December 30, 2012

ammonium obsessive: Organizing Craft Supplies

Every year as soon as Christmas is over I get anxious to start simplifying our home. Organizing craft supplies in my craft hutch was at the top of my list. This month with gift wrapping, handmade gift making, and lack of time its become total chaos in my craft space. We dedicated a corner in our master bedroom for my craft supplies so that I didn?t have to use the kitchen counter anymore. I thought it would be easier to keep track of everything but that?s not always the case. I?d show you the entire craft space but I?m not done organizing and decorating it yet, so that will have to wait for another post. But I will show you my craft hutch beautifully organized just the way I imagined it would be when I bought it last summer.

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Its simple with neutral colors, definitely my ideal craft space!

Here is the before?

Organizing craft supplies

As you can see nothing matched and it was so disorganized that I had a hard time keeping track of what supplies were in which bin. These are only my most used craft supplies, half of our master bedroom closet is used for craft supplies as well-yikes! That?s a whole new project to work on in 2013, but for now I needed something to help me organize my craft space. I found a 4 pack of baskets on clearance for $13 at Lowes this week and was thrilled that they were exactly what I?ve been looking for. Organizing Craft Supplies

The tags remind me of faux chalkboard tags. To make them I used my Brother P-touch labeler, die cutting machine, Core?dinations Black Magic cardstock and sand-it set. Once my labels were cut I used the paper sander to lightly sand the edges and front of the tags. The black magic cardstock has a color on the backside that appears when you sand or cut it (for these tags I used the black and white paper). Then I created labels for each basket. The deco modes on the P-Touch Labeler are SO cute and there are a large variety of icons for any theme you?re looking for.

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Brother P-Touch Labeler

I?ve been using my Brother P-Touch labeler to organize the baskets as well as various other projects around the house. This little tool is a lifesaver! I?m a visual person, I like to see where everything is neatly put away and have some sort of organization system going on with everything in the house. We are in the process of tackling the kids rooms this weekend. Target has some pretty cute plastic bins for kids. We bought heart patterned containers for my daughters toys and we started labeling them by toy group. Santa brought her toys with way too many small pieces this year, so we need to make sure we don?t lose them!

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Saturday, December 29, 2012

Fans to introduce Beyonce at Super Bowl halftime

NEW YORK (AP) ? All the single ladies ? and fellas ? will have a chance to join Beyonce on the field at the Super Bowl.

Pepsi announced Friday that fans will introduce the Grammy-winning diva when she takes the stage Feb. 3 at New Orleans' Mercedes-Benz Superdome. A contest that kicks off Saturday will allow fans to submit photos of themselves in various poses, including head bopping, feet tapping and hip shaking. Those pictures will be used in a TV ad to air ahead of Beyonce's halftime performance, and 50 of those who submit photos ? along with a friend ? will be selected to introduce the singer.

Photo contest details are at www.pepsi.com/halftime . The contest ends Jan. 19, but Jan. 11 is the cutoff date for those interested in introducing Beyonce.

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Three New Jersey police officers shot; gunman reported dead

(Reuters) - Three New Jersey police officers were shot early on Friday at their police station, and one was in surgery for his wounds, a hospital official said.

The suspected gunman, who had been brought to the Gloucester Township Police station for a domestic incident, was killed in the exchange of gunfire, local TV reported, citing police officials. Gloucester is in central New Jersey about 16 miles outside of Philadelphia.

"A violent struggle occurred while the suspect was being processed," Gloucester Deputy Police Chief David Harkins said, according to Philadelphia TV station NBC10. The man was able to grab a gun and then opened fire.

The gunman was killed by police during the confrontation, Gloucester Police Chief W. Harry Earle said, according to the NBC10 report.

Gloucester Township Police declined to comment on the incident or to confirm the NBC10 report. An officer answering the phone said a press statement would be issued later in the day and a press conference was scheduled for Friday afternoon.

The three wounded police officers, two men and a woman, were brought to Cooper University Hospital shortly after 6 a.m. EST (1100 GMT), hospital spokeswoman Lori Shaffer said.

Two of the officers suffered minor wounds, but one of the three, a male, required surgery, Shaffer said. She had no more information on the extent of the officer's wounds.

The incident follows several recent multiple shootings in the United States, and comes two weeks after a gunman killed 26 people, including 20 children, at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut.

One week ago in western Pennsylvania, a man with a pistol fatally shot three people and then opened fire on police. Three officers were injured in that incident, one in a collision from a car chase with the gunman, another from bullet fragments to the face and a third who was struck with gunfire to the chest but survived because he was wearing a bulletproof vest.

(Reporting by Dan Burns in New York; Editing by Dale Hudson and Claudia Parsons)

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Friday, December 28, 2012

Tom Cruise Girlfriend? Cynthia Jorge Denies Rumor

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Mother to Legislators: Do Not Deny Mental Health Services to Most ...

Editor's Note: This speech was presented at a legislative breakfast to local legislators because nonprofit mental health services in Connecticut have been cut dramatically with the most recent budget cuts.?

I?m Fran, and I?m the parent of two wonderful children: a 22-year-old daughter and a 24-year-old son, Josh.? Josh is funny, he?s smart, he?s very affectionate, we love him to death ... and he lives with developmental disabilities and mental illness. He operates within a pretty small world and does best when there is a lot of predictability in his routine and in his environment. He faces enormous obstacles in his life, but has the same needs for dignity and a satisfying quality of life that you and I share.?

He is fortunate to qualify for support through the state Department of Mental Health and Human Services, and extremely fortunate to receive that support through Gilead Community Services.?

I also have the privilege of serving on Gilead?s board of directors. This gives me the rare opportunity to see the delivery of services not only from Josh?s perspective, but also from an administrative point of view. What I see is an organization with enlightened administrators, and an extremely dedicated staff that has done heroic work to find creative ways to stretch dollars without compromising client services.?

But because of chronic underfunding, Gilead has reached the point where the dollars available simply won?t stretch any further. With the governor?s latest recissions, (see attached pdf) Gilead will have to cut four staff and 40 clients.? As a parent I worry.? Will Josh be one of those?? If so, where will he go???

Even if he?s one of the lucky ones who isn?t cut, his program staff?already stretched too thin?will be reduced again.? This will inevitably reduce the number of case managers who are available to maintain the security and predictability of his world, and respond to crises when they occur.? He will experience more stress, which increases his anxiety.?

If the source of his anxiety isn?t addressed, his behavior escalates, which often leads to threats and aggressive behavior. This sets in motion a whole cascade of events:? Mobile Crisis has to be called, police are involved, an ambulance is sent, he?s taken to the ER, and may be admitted to a psych ward for several days.? This is not only traumatic for Josh and for us, but it all takes place at great expense to the state.? I can guarantee you that as community supports continue to crumble, a similar scenario will be playing out with increasing frequency for many of Gilead?s clients.

I know that you will be leaving here to go make some very difficult budget decisions. As a parent, a Gilead board member, and a member of this community, I?m asking you to do three things:

  • Find your heart:?There is a children?s book called The Little Prince, in which a wise fox tells the Little Prince that ?It is only with the heart that one can see rightly.?? Our hearts tell us the truth.? When we look at any situation with our hearts, we know what needs to be done.?
  • Find your courage:?Have the courage to stand up and say ?We are better than this.? We do not turn our backs on our most vulnerable constituents because they do not have a voice, or a powerful lobby.??
  • Find a way:?Find a way to make our agencies whole.? Adequate funding creates jobs, it saves money, it saves lives, and it preserves our human dignity ? and Josh?s.? Find a way.? We can?t afford not to.?

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First fashion video festival during Milano Fashion City program.
Diana Secl??presents the new talent contest about DIRECTION, PHOTOGRAPHY, STYLING and DESIGN.
IUFF is reserved to international talents aged 18/36 years old which will achieve fashion short video.

IMPORTANT:?video can be already produced!!!

Theme:?accessory touch
There ?has to be one of the following accessory in the video: bag/ shoes/ glasses/ fur

Accessory is not only the fashion video main actor but just feeling
(please have a look to submission for all accessories details)

Both juries will confer thirty finalists and five winners.

Every award gives the possibility to the winner of achieving a short fashion video committed by every fair following the category linked to it and it will be visible on the proper web site. All the total amount will be 7.500 euro
IUFF award will use video winner to promote next festival season all over the world.

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Thursday, December 27, 2012

Kupa X15 Windows 8 tablet gets production ready, now on sale starting at $1,100

Kupa X15 Windows 8 tablet gets production ready, now on sale starting at $1,100

When we first saw the Kupa UltraNote back at MobileCon 2012, the convertible Windows 8 slate had all the markings of a reference design: NFC, fingerprint scanner, LTE, digitizer and Intel Core i7 processor. But production realities change things some, and now that this particular tab is finally on sale, a few of its specs have been swapped out. Starting at $1,100 and rebadged as the X15, this 10.1-inch slate still reps a 1,920 x 1,200 IPS display, dual 1.3-megapixel front-facing / 5-megapixel rear cameras, support for WiFi a/b/g/n and Bluetooth 4.0, as well as up to 128GB SSD, but now comes in four configurations. Most notably, its allotment of DDR3 RAM's been doubled to 8GB across the board, although users seeking that previously announced Ivy Bridge Core i7 will have to opt for the high-end Ultra model as the lesser Elite, Pro and Lux builds all feature an Intel Core i5. LTE support seems to have been dropped altogether in favor of HSPA+ connectivity on the Ultra and Lux units. If you're interested in what Kupa's selling here, you'll need to contact the company directly -- there's no easy link on its site to simply purchase the X15 tablet outright.

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Monday, December 17, 2012

Meatless Monday: How to make homemade tofu

The only ingredients are Epsom salt and soy milk. The only equipment you'll need is a?stainless steel pot, a couple of wooden spoons, and a piece of cheesecloth.

By Patricia Tanumihardja,?The Asian Grandmothers Cookbook / December 16, 2012

Tofu is a staple in vegetarian and vegan meals. Making your own requires just two ingredients and some perseverance.

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I?ve tried making tofu several times now and the process never goes exactly the same.

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Born in Indonesia and raised in Singapore, Patricia Tanumihardja writes about food, travel, and lifestyle through a multicultural lens and has been published in numerous national and regional publications. Pat is also the creator of the ?Asian Ingredients 101? iPhone and Android app, a glossary on-the-go that?s the perfect companion on a trip to the Asian market. Her first book,?The Asian Grandmothers Cookbook: Home Cooking from Asian American Kitchens,?will be available in paperback in September 2012.

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I?m always surprised ? the resulting tofu may turn out a little firmer or a wee bit spongier. I really can?t tell you why but that?s OK since it always tastes good. I just mix it up, using the tofu in different recipes. Keep in mind, the quality of your soymilk plays a huge part in how your tofu will turn out. In other words, keep experimenting until you?re satisfied!

As for equipment, I took out my stainless steel pot, a couple of wooden spoons, my recently-purchased cheesecloth (you can use a thin cotton non-terry dish towel or handkerchief), and I was ready to start tofu-making.

True to ?no fancy equipment? form,?I decided to convert an old plastic tofu container into a makeshift tofu press.?I turned it upside down and started cutting into the nicks that were already molded into the plastic, making sure the slits were big enough to allow liquid to drain through. Clever, eh? You could also use a colander to press your tofu.

Homemade Momen Tofu

Time: 45 minutes to 1 hour
?Makes: about 14 ounces of tofu

2 teaspoons Epsom salt
?4 cups soymilk (storebought or homemade)

Stir the Epsom salt into 1/2 cup hot water until it completely dissolves.

In a large pot, bring the soymilk to a gentle boil over medium-high heat. When steam starts to appear and bubbles form around the edge of the pot, reduce the heat to medium. Simmer for about 3 minutes, stirring often to ensure the soymilk doesn?t burn. Remove any film that forms on the surface.

Reduce the heat to low. Pour the Epsom salt mixture into the hot soymilk a little at a time, stirring after each pour. The curds will soon start separating from the whey. As soon as obvious curds have formed and the whey turns from a milky white to a yellowish, translucent liquid, stop pouring. You want to use as little coagulant as possible because it might impart a bitter taste to the tofu. I usually use up about 1/4 to 1/3 cup of the Epsom salts mixture.

Take the pot off the heat and cover with a lid. Let it sit for about 15 minutes to allow the curds to separate even further. After 15 minutes, if the whey is still opaque, add more of the Epsom salts mixture, stirring after each pour. Don?t worry if the curds are no bigger than coarse breadcrumbs.

Set your ?tofu press? over a colander in the sink. Line the press with the cheesecloth.

Pour the curds and whey into the ?tofu press? in stages, waiting for the whey to drain into the sink. Wring as much liquid from the cheesecloth as possible.

Press the curds into the ?tofu press,? filling out the corners. Or press into the bottom of a colander or sieve. Fold the cheesecloth neatly and place a folded towel on top to soak up excess liquid. Weigh down the tofu with two cans of food.

Allow the tofu to set for 15 to 20 minutes. Unwrap the cheesecloth and turn the tofu block out into a large bowl or plastic container. Fill with water, being careful not to hit the tofu directly with the stream of water, and rinse the tofu gently. Drain and the tofu is ready to be made into dinner.

To store, submerge the tofu in water in the refrigerator for 2 to 3 days, changing the water every day. Remember, this is fresh tofu and has no preservatives!

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Saturday, December 15, 2012

Police, world wonder about Conn. shooting motive

NEWTOWN, Conn. (AP) ? The massacre of 26 children and adults at a Connecticut elementary school elicited horror and soul-searching around the world even as it raised more basic questions about why the gunman, a 20-year-old described as brilliant but remote, would have been driven to such a crime and how he chose his victims.

Investigators were trying to learn more about the gunman, Adam Lanza, and questioned his older brother, who is not believed to have been involved in the rampage at Sandy Hook Elementary. Police shed no light on the motive for the nation's second-deadliest school shooting.

In tight-knit Newtown on Friday night, hundreds of people packed St. Rose of Lima church and stood outside in a vigil for the 28 dead ? 20 children and six adults at the school, the gunman's mother at home, and the gunman himself, who committed suicide. People held hands, lit candles and sang "Silent Night."

"These 20 children were just beautiful, beautiful children," Monsignor Robert Weiss said. "These 20 children lit up this community better than all these Christmas lights we have. ... There are a lot brighter stars up there tonight because of these kids."

Lanza is believed to have suffered from a personality disorder and lived with his mother, said a law enforcement official who was briefed on the investigation.

Lanza shot his mother, Nancy Lanza, drove to the school in her car with at least three guns, including a high-powered rifle that he apparently left in the back of the vehicle, and shot up two classrooms around 9:30 a.m. Friday, law enforcement officials said, speaking on condition of anonymity.

A custodian ran through the halls, warning of a gunman, and someone switched on the intercom, perhaps saving many lives by letting them hear the chaos in the school office, a teacher said. Teachers locked their doors and ordered children to huddle in a corner or hide in closets as shots echoed through the building.

The well-liked principal, Dawn Hochsprung, was believed to be among the dead. A woman who worked at the school was wounded. An update on victims' identities was planned Saturday morning.

A law enforcement official speaking on condition of anonymity said investigators believe Lanza attended the school several years ago but appeared to have no recent connection to it.

At least one parent said Lanza's mother was a substitute teacher there. But her name did not appear on a staff list. And the official said investigators were unable to establish any connection so far between her and the school.

Lanza's older brother, 24-year-old Ryan Lanza, of Hoboken, N.J., was questioned, but a law enforcement official said he was not believed to have had a role in the rampage. Investigators were searching his computers and phone records, but he told law enforcement he had not been in touch with his brother since about 2010.

The officials spoke on the condition of anonymity because they were not authorized to discuss the unfolding investigation.

At one point, a law enforcement official mistakenly identified the gunman as Ryan Lanza. Brett Wilshe, a friend of Ryan Lanza's, said Lanza told him the gunman may have had his identification. Ryan Lanza apparently posted Facebook page updates Friday afternoon that read, "It wasn't me" and "I was at work."

For about two hours late Friday and early Saturday, clergy members and emergency vehicles moved steadily to and from the school. The state medical examiner's office said bodies of the victims would be taken there eventually for autopsies.

The shooter took three guns into the school ? a Glock and a Sig Sauer, both pistols, and a .223-caliber Bushmaster rifle, according to an official who was not authorized to discuss information with reporters and spoke on the condition of anonymity. The weapons were registered to his slain mother.

Adam Lanza and his mother lived in a well-to-do part of prosperous Newtown, about 60 miles northeast of New York City, where neighbors are doctors or hold white-collar positions at companies such as General Electric, Pepsi and IBM.

Lanza's parents filed for divorce in 2008, according to court records. His father, Peter Lanza, lives in Stamford, Conn., and works as a tax director for General Electric.

The gunman's aunt Marsha Lanza, of Crystal Lake, Ill., said her nephew was raised by kind, nurturing parents who would not have hesitated to seek mental help for him if he needed it.

"Nancy wasn't one to deny reality," Marsha Lanza said, adding her husband had seen Adam as recently as June and recalled nothing out of the ordinary.

Catherine Urso, of Newtown, said her college-age son knew the killer and remembered him for his alternative style. "He just said he was very thin, very remote and was one of the goths," she said.

Adam Lanza attended Newtown High School, and several news clippings from recent years mention his name among the honor roll students.

Joshua Milas, who graduated from Newtown High in 2009 and belonged to the school technology club with him, said Adam Lanza was generally a happy person but that he hadn't seen him in a few years.

"We would hang out, and he was a good kid. He was smart," Joshua Milas said. "He was probably one of the smartest kids I know. He was probably a genius."

An official who spoke on condition of anonymity said it was not clear that Adam Lanza had a job, and there was no indication of law enforcement interviews or search warrants at a place of business.

The mass shooting is one of the deadliest in U.S. history, and among school attacks is second in victims only to the 2007 Virginia Tech massacre, which left 33 people dead, including the gunman. Reaction was swift and emotional in Newtown, a picturesque New England community of 27,000 people, as well as across the country and around the world.

"It has to stop, these senseless deaths," said Frank DeAngelis, principal of Colorado's Columbine High School, where a massacre in 1999 killed 15 people.

In Washington, the Coalition to Stop Gun Violence organized a vigil at the White House, with some protesters chanting, "Today IS the day" to take steps to curb gun violence. In New York's Times Square, a few dozen people held tea lights in plastic cups, with one woman holding a sign that read: "Take a moment and candle to remember the victims of the Newtown shooting."

President Barack Obama's comments on the tragedy amounted to one of the most outwardly emotional moments of his presidency.

"The majority of those who died were children ? beautiful little kids between the ages of 5 and 10 years old," Obama said at a White House news briefing. He paused for several seconds to keep his composure as he teared up and wiped an eye. Nearby, two aides cried and held hands.

Australian Prime Minister Julia Gillard described the attack as a "senseless and incomprehensible act of evil."

"Like President Obama and his fellow Americans, our hearts too are broken," Gillard said in a statement.

In Japan, where guns are severely restricted and there are extremely few gun-related crimes, the attack led the news two days before nationwide parliamentary elections. In China, which has seen several knife rampages at schools in recent years, the attack quickly consumed public discussion.

At the Newtown vigil, Anthony Bloss, whose three daughters survived, said they are doing better than he. "I'm numb. I'm completely numb," he said.

The gunman entered the school through its front door, and authorities are looking into the possibility that he shattered glass next to it to get in, said Newtown Police Lt. George Sinko.

Panicked parents looking for their children raced to Sandy Hook, a kindergarten-through-fourth-grade school where police told youngsters to close their eyes as they were led from the building so that they wouldn't see the blood and broken glass.

Schoolchildren ? some crying, many looking frightened ? were escorted through a parking lot in a line, hands on one another's shoulders.

Robert Licata said his 6-year-old son was in class when the gunman burst in and shot the teacher. "That's when my son grabbed a bunch of his friends and ran out the door," he said. "He was very brave. He waited for his friends."

He said the shooter didn't utter a word.

Kaitlin Roig, a teacher at the school, said she implored her students to be quiet.

"I told them we had to be absolutely quiet. Because I was just so afraid if he did come in, then he would hear us and just start shooting the door. I said we have to be absolutely quiet. And I said there are bad guys out there now and we need to wait for the good guys to come get us out," Roig told ABC News.

"If they started crying, I would take their face and say it's going to be OK. Show me your smile," she said. "They said, we want to go home for Christmas. Yes, yeah. I just want to hug my mom, things like that, that were just heartbreaking."

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Contributing to this report were Associated Press writers Pat Eaton-Robb and Matt Apuzzo and videographer Robert Ray in Newtown; Bridget Murphy in Boston; Samantha Henry in Newark, N.J.; Pete Yost in Washington; Michael Melia in Hartford; and the AP News Research Center in New York.

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Some people have trouble falling asleep. Others can?t stay asleep. Following foods help you to sleep.

1. Seafood

Most seafood ? and particularly fish, halibut and tuna?aboast vitamin B6, which is required to make melatonin (a sleep-inducing hormone triggered by darkness).

2. Jasmine Grain

When healthy sleepers ate carb-wealthy suppers of vegetables and tomato sauce over grain, they went to sleep considerably faster at bed time when the meal incorporated high-glycemic-index (GI) jasmine grain instead of lower-GI lengthy-grain grain, inside a study released within the American Journal of Clinical Diet. As the authors aren?t sure the way it happened, they thought the larger amounts of blood insulin triggered through the high-GI foods elevated the number of sleep-inducing tryptophan in accordance with other proteins within the blood, permitting proportionately more to get involved with the mind.

3. Tart Cherry Juice

In a tiny study, melatonin-wealthy tart cherry juice was proven to assist sleep. When grown ups with chronic insomnia drank a mug of tart cherry juice two times each day they experienced some respite in the seriousness of their insomnia.

4. Yogurt

Milk products like yogurt and milk boast healthy doses of calcium and there is research that indicates being calcium-deficient could make it hard to go to sleep.

5. Whole Grain Products

Bulgur, barley along with other whole grain products are ron in magnesium and consuming not enough magnesium could make it harder to remain asleep.

6. Kale

Milk products are very well-known calcium-wealthy meals. But eco-friendly leafy veggies, for example including kale and collards, also sport healthy doses of calcium. And research indicates that being calcium deficient could make it hard to go to sleep.

7. Bananas

Bananas, well-noted for being wealthy in potassium, will also be a useful source of Vitamin B6, which is required to make melatonin (a sleep-inducing hormone triggered by darkness).

8. Chickpeas

Chickpeas boast vitamin B6, which is required to make melatonin (a sleep-inducing hormone triggered by darkness).

9. Prepared Cereal products

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Friday, December 14, 2012

OPEC not concerned about US pickup in oil output

VIENNA (AP) ? OPEC does not see increased U.S. oil output as a threat to its interests but is skeptical about current forecasts on the boom of American shale oil production, a senior official of the 12-nation cartel said Thursday.

OPEC Secretary General Abdullah Al-Badry also said that figures supplied by Iran show it producing around 3.7 million barrels a day. That is the same amount as Tehran pumped before international embargos on its crude that took effect this year and is estimated to have cost it hundreds of thousands of barrels a day in sales.

Al-Badry spoke to reporters a day after OPEC ministers agreed to keep their daily crude production target unchanged at 30 million barrels. They also extended his term for a year after failing to agree on a successor for the post because of rivalries among Saudi Arabia, Iran and Iraq, which nominated candidates.

OPEC, which accounts for about a third of the world's oil production, is projecting a slight fall in demand for its crude next year, and world inventories are well stocked, in part because of resurgent production by the United State, which is tapping into oil extraction from shale.

The Paris-based International Energy Agency is predicting that America will be a net exporter of oil by the next decade and could overtake Saudi Arabia ? OPEC's powerhouse ? as the world's top crude producer by 2020. Analysts have suggested a looming dent in OPEC influence as a result.

But Al-Badry told reporters his organization "is not really concerned" about any increase in world supply due to U.S. shale extraction.

He questioned industry estimates that U.S. shale extraction could amount to an extra 3 million barrels of oil a day within 20 years as well as forecasts of U.S. energy independence. At the same time, he said any extra supply was welcome.

"It's fine with us, it's another source of energy and the world really needs this oil, I don't see it as a threat to OPEC" he said.

His comments on Iranian production indicated that figures from other organizations may be off or that Tehran's statistics might be inaccurate.

Oil exports from the Islamic Republic have dropped this year as a result of international sanctions imposed due to concerns that Tehran may be seeking nuclear arms ? something Iran denies. The International Energy Agency, which offers energy expertise to industrialized country, said last month that Iranian oil output was at a daily 2.7 million barrels in October.

But Al-Badry said Iran has told OPEC that it is producing 1 million barrels a day more than that, which would equal output before the embargoes took hold.

Ahead of Wednesday's OPEC oil ministers' meeting, Iranian Oil Minister Rostam Ghasemi played down the effects the sanctions were having on his country, claiming the Iranian state had cut its financial dependence on oil income by 20 percent in the last three years.

"Next year we will do the same," he said.

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Is It Possible To Create A Mind?

Siri can make an appointment for you. IBM's Watson beat a human contestant on Jeopardy. But will they ever really think? Futurist Ray Kurzweil shares his thoughts on the nature of the brain and describes how biological and technological advances might augment the human mind.

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Sprint offers $2.1B for the rest of Clearwire

(AP) ? Sprint Nextel has offered to buy out the minority shareholders of Clearwire for $2.1 billion in a deal that would give it total control of the flailing company and also more space on the airwaves for data services.

Sprint said in a regulatory filing Thursday that it's offering $2.90 per share for the 49 percent of the wireless network operator that it doesn't already own.

Clearwire's board hasn't approved the sale, but said it's in discussions with Sprint. Clearwire shares jumped 15 percent to close at $3.16 Thursday, suggesting that investors believe a better offer may be coming.

It's been widely assumed that Sprint, the country's No. 3 wireless carrier, would buy out Clearwire. Both companies have been pressed financially, but Sprint is getting an infusion of cash after selling 70 percent of itself to Softbank Corp. of Japan for $20 billion. Clearwire shares nearly doubled in value when that deal was announced two months ago, and got a further boost on Tuesday, when The Wall Street Journal and CNBC reported that Sprint and Clearwire were already in talks.

Clearwire, which is based in Kirkland, Wash., was formed by cellular pioneer Craig McCaw to take advantage of an emerging wireless technology, WiMax, which promised higher speeds and lower costs than conventional cellular technology.

Sprint was working on the same technology and in 2008, rolled those operations into Clearwire, gaining a stake of more than 50 percent. Since then, it's had a hot-and-cold relationship with Clearwire. Sprint uses Clearwire's WiMax network to provide "Sprint 4G," but the technology has been orphaned as other wireless carriers have opted for another fourth-generation technology called "LTE." Sprint is now building out its own 4G LTE network, something that Clearwire would do as well if it had the funds.

Clearwire's main asset is vast swaths of wireless spectrum, or space on the airwaves, that could be used to provide high data download speeds ? a crucial competitive factor in today's wireless industry. However, Clearwire's frequencies are difficult to use: They require many cell towers to cover an area, and the signals don't penetrate well into buildings. Clearwire's weak financials had threatened to drag Sprint down with it, and Sprint had reduced its stake to less than 50 percent.

Soon after the Softbank announcement, however, Sprint struck a deal to buy out McCaw's stake in Clearwire. Remaining Clearwire investors include cable companies Comcast Corp. and Bright House Networks, as well as chipmaker Intel Corp. Google Inc. sold its Clearwire stake in February for $1.60 per share, and Time Warner Cable Inc. sold in September at a similar price.

Sprint's offer for Clearwire continues a wave of deal-making in wireless this fall. Medium-sized players are trying to strengthen their hands to compete with the top two, Verizon Wireless and AT&T Inc. Sprint's deal with Softbank is part of that trend, as is No. 4 T-Mobile USA's deal to buy No. 5 MetroPCS Communications Inc.

Sprint has 48 million subscribers that it bills directly, compared to 96 million at Verizon and 77 million at AT&T.

Clearwire Corp. serves 10.5 million subscribers, but it only bills 1.4 million of them directly. Almost all of the rest are using Sprint devices.

Shares of Sprint Nextel Corp., based in Overland Park, Kan., fell 2 cents to close at $5.64.

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Ukraine lawmakers brawl in parliament for 2nd day

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Opposition and pro-presidential lawmakers scuffle on the podium during a session of the Ukrainian parliament in Kiev on December 13, 2012.

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Deputies of the opposition fight with deputies of the majority for a second time in two days on December 13, 2012.

Seconds out, Round 2!?Fights broke out in the Ukrainian parliament for a second time in two days on Thursday, Agence France-Presse reports.

The opening session of the Verkhkovna Rada on Wednesday began in a typically raucous fashion (as seen on PhotoBlog yesterday)?as a fight erupted in the chamber between opposition MPs and two deputies whom they accused of defecting to the pro-government camp. Several lawmakers from the opposition nationalist Svoboda group chased two men they called?"turncoats" ? a father and a son ? to prevent them from taking the oath. ?

Ukraine's parliament has seen several physical confrontations in recent years amid bitterness between opposition and pro-government camps.?

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Ukrainian lawmakers fight around the rostrum on Dec. 13, 2012.

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Deputies of the opposition fight with deputies of majority party during the opening of the newly elected parliament on December 12, 2012.

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Depression eased quickly with experimental drug: Works in brain like Ketamine, with fewer side effects, study suggests

Dec. 12, 2012 ? A drug that works through the same brain mechanism as the fast-acting antidepressant ketamine briefly improved treatment-resistant patients' depression symptoms in minutes, with minimal untoward side effects, in a clinical trial conducted by the National Institutes of Health. The experimental agent, called AZD6765, acts through the brain's glutamate chemical messenger system.

Existing antidepressants available through prescription, which work through the brain's serotonin system, take a few weeks to work, imperiling severely depressed patients, who can be at high risk for suicide. Ketamine also works in hours, but its usefulness is limited by its potential for dissociative side-effects, including hallucinations. It is being studied mostly for clues to how it works.

"Our findings serve as a proof of concept that we can tap into an important component of the glutamate pathway to develop a new generation of safe, rapid-acting practical treatments for depression," said Carlos Zarate, M.D., of the NIH's National Institute of Mental Health, which conducted the research.

Zarate, and colleagues, reported on their results online Dec. 1, 2012 in the journal Biological Psychiatry.

AZD6765, like ketamine, works by blocking glutamate binding to a protein on the surface of neurons, called the NMDA receptor. It is a less powerful blocker of the NMDA receptor, which may be a reason why it is better tolerated than ketamine.

About 32 percent of 22 treatment-resistant depressed patients infused with ASD6765 showed a clinically meaningful antidepressant response at 80 minutes after infusion that lasted for about half an hour -- with residual antidepressant effects lasting two days for some. By contrast, 52 percent of patients receiving ketamine show a comparable response, with effects still detectable at seven days. So a single infusion of ketamine produces more robust and sustained improvement, but most patients continue to experience some symptoms with both drugs.

However, depression rating scores were significantly better among patients who received AZD6765 than in those who received placebos. The researchers deemed this noteworthy, since, on average, these patients had failed to improve in seven past antidepressant trials, and nearly half failed to respond to electroconvulsive therapy (ECT).

The patients reported only minor side effects, such as dizziness and nausea, which were not significantly different from those experienced with the placebo.

Zarate and colleagues say their results warrant further trials with AZD6765, testing whether repeated infusions a few times per week or higher doses might produce longer-lasting results.

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Wednesday, December 12, 2012

'Doctor Who' Christmas Special: New 'The Snowmen' Trailer (VIDEO)

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"Doctor Who" Christmas special airs on December 25.

While most people are counting down the days until Santa drops off their gifts, Whovians are marking their calendars in anticipation of the "Doctor Who" Christmas special.

The 2012 special, titled "The Snowmen," includes Jenna-Louise Coleman's official debut as Clara, the Doctor's new companion. What else happens? HuffPost TV has seen it, but we're sworn to secrecy. However, we revealed a few spoilery details here. Check out the new trailer below.

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Looking for some outside opinions on my situation. I am newly single in a very amicable split from my ex after being separated for almost 2 years ontop of an 18 year marriage. I dated several woman in the first year following the breakup, with the experience of ending some relationships by my choice and some not. My marriage never included infidelity on either side and I guess we are one of the few couples who actually grew apart and felt we wanted different lives.

I met Mary one year ago. An instant connection that I have never felt before with anyone including my wife. We spent the first night talking about our lives and fact she was going through a separation and still living with her husband. I did not see any red flags because I was in same situation due to parental and financial reasons for a time after my own separation. Her marriage was riddled with her husband's infidelity that included two long-term affairs. She explained she would never be able to get over the second one that she found out about 3 months before we met.

Within a week of meeting, we began to openly date and I thought all was ok and that she would be leaving soon. Her husband, although not happy, acknowledged that she was moving on. However, after three months her husband did a 180 degree turn and begged for her forgiveness. She claimed she was not emotionally ready to grieve her marriage, which is difficult to understand given she is a child therapist. Her husband began to make her life impossible demanding her whereabouts, cell phone bills, etc and that she end it. With threats ranging from harming himself to constantly telling her how guilty she should be for giving up on their children. We decided to proceed as an affair as at this point, which i know was mistake, but I was totally in love and as she claims to be. Now I must add, she has overcome the most traumatic of childhoods, the kind you might see in a lifetime movie. Her husband was the only man she has ever been with besides me and has controlled her her whole life and I believe breaking from that process might be a long-term proposition (if ever).

I am still in this situation and for some reason have been totally unable to walk away. Not looking for validation, but because this started as a true open loving relationship I don't believe it has to suffer same fate as "once a cheater always a cheater" or "starts as affair never ends well".

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She is cake eating.. keeping the two of you on a string. It's a very gratifying thing... to have two people loving you and fight for you. Lucky her. And she can keep this game up for a very long time until one of you takes your game pieces and leaves.

She?s a child therapist and you don?t? understand why she is not ready to grieve her marriage? Well she does not have to. You are not going anywhere. Her husband is not going anywhere.

By the way, most cheaters tell their affair partner that their spouse is controlling. Now why does a child therapist allow her husband to control her for years? Either it did not happen or she?s really messed up in head.

You are the transition relationship... the guy that boosts her ego... the guy she gets to rub in her cheating husband's face. How much fun is it to be that guy?

How do you love someone who is using you this way? Do you know that only about 3% of affairs last once the cheater leaves their spouse? She will dump you either when she?s done punishing her husband and gets back with him 100% or when she?s ready to grieve her marriage and move on.

If she will cheat on her husband with you, she will cheat on you. Are you willing to take the chance on a relationship that as less than a 3% chance of making it?


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I am sorry you were sucked in by the lie that her husband and her were "separating"

Walk away man. There are children in this and you are making it impossible for them to talk.

You are here asking for help.
It is a tough board to do that on. I respect you for it.

You know what you have to do already. You have to be the man and walk away. You know this.

JUST DO IT.
It must be total no contact and you must be absolute.

You are being used. She is using you to get back at her husband and keeping you dangling. Cake eating.

Doesn't matter. You have to walk. Be the man that you should be.

Good luck. The heartbreak will be hard but the longer this goes on the worse it will be.

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Looking for some outside opinions on my situation. I am newly single in a very amicable split from my ex after being separated for almost 2 years ontop of an 18 year marriage. I dated several woman in the first year following the breakup, with the experience of ending some relationships by my choice and some not. My marriage never included infidelity on either side and I guess we are one of the few couples who actually grew apart and felt we wanted different lives.

I met Mary one year ago. An instant connection that I have never felt before with anyone including my wife. We spent the first night talking about our lives and fact she was going through a separation and still living with her husband. I did not see any red flags because I was in same situation due to parental and financial reasons for a time after my own separation. Her marriage was riddled with her husband's infidelity that included two long-term affairs. She explained she would never be able to get over the second one that she found out about 3 months before we met.

Within a week of meeting, we began to openly date and I thought all was ok and that she would be leaving soon. Her husband, although not happy, acknowledged that she was moving on. However, after three months her husband did a 180 degree turn and begged for her forgiveness. She claimed she was not emotionally ready to grieve her marriage, which is difficult to understand given she is a child therapist. Her husband began to make her life impossible demanding her whereabouts, cell phone bills, etc and that she end it. With threats ranging from harming himself to constantly telling her how guilty she should be for giving up on their children. We decided to proceed as an affair as at this point, which i know was mistake, but I was totally in love and as she claims to be. Now I must add, she has overcome the most traumatic of childhoods, the kind you might see in a lifetime movie. Her husband was the only man she has ever been with besides me and has controlled her her whole life and I believe breaking from that process might be a long-term proposition (if ever).

I am still in this situation and for some reason have been totally unable to walk away. Not looking for validation, but because this started as a true open loving relationship I don't believe it has to suffer same fate as "once a cheater always a cheater" or "starts as affair never ends well".

Cheating is wrong. Do you believe in right and wrong?

If you both are truly soulmates, then you both will end the affair and let her divorce and end her marriage and her life with her husband before she starts a new life with you.

This poor woman is under the utter and complete control of her husband? She is unable to leave him? Yet he cannot control her having an affair with you? Warning, warning, danger Will Robinson, this does not compute. If she is strong enough to have an affair, she is strong enough to leave her husband. If she wants to. If she is still with her husband, that means she does not want to leave him.

You don't have to walk away from her. Stay where you are. Let her divorce her husband and come to you.

Her life with you is a fantasy. You give her all the attention one gets in a new romance. You go to romantic dinners. You gaze deeply into each other's eyes and tell each other how you were made for one another, how you will be together forever someday, in a land where there are no problems with kids, no dirty laundry, no dirty bathrooms to clean. Your love with her is so clean and pure, not the impure love she now suffers with her husband, the evil man who tricked her into marrying her just so he can control her and make her unhappy, which he undoubtedly feels is his only joy on this earth.

Is this the kind of opinion you were looking for?

It looks like she met you, sold you a bill of goods about who she was, then pulled the old bait and switch. She was able to hide her crazy for awhile. Now you are trying to find out which is the real her, and making inane posts like these two pearls:

Her husband was the only man she has ever been with besides me and has controlled her her whole life and I believe breaking from that process might be a long-term proposition (if ever).

Not looking for validation, but because this started as a true open loving relationship I don't believe it has to suffer same fate as "once a cheater always a cheater" or "starts as affair never ends well".

Those two gems make you look like you are in a love-induced stupor. Those are like the kind of things you hear in a hokey movie. Come back to real life. Her husband is not keeping her prisoner. She can leave him if she wants to. Cheating is wrong no matter how you look at it. Maybe you thought you were in a "true open loving relationship" but it doesn't seem she was.

So tell her that you are not a cheater, you don't want to sneak around, and you don't want a woman who is married to someone else. In the process, take a step back and look at this from the persepective of you reading someone else who has posted this.

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She claimed she was not emotionally ready to grieve her marriage. Her husband began to make her life impossible demanding her whereabouts, cell phone bills, etc and that she end it. With threats ranging from harming himself to constantly telling her how guilty she should be for giving up on their children. We decided to proceed as an affair as at this point.

So she told her husband she wanted to give up the affair and work on the marriage? Or just wanted to stay married while she had an affair? How would you expect her husband to act, in either situation?

Imagine you are married to this woman and you find out she has cheated on you. You decide to work it out for the sake of the kids. You find out she still is hiding contact with other man. Is it possible that you may react in the same way as her husband, wanting to know her whereabouts, looking at cell phone bills, and asking her to end the affair?

Or would you just say, "ok, let me know when you are ready to grieve our marriage, until then, carry on your affair with other man, I will just keep the status quo until you decide you are ready to finally divorce me."?

How would you react if you were in her husband's position?

I think your problem should be with the person who is committing adultery with you, not her husband.

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A recent Wall Street Journal article dove into the rise of real estate builders coordinating with universities to build rental units for a niche group of students wishing to pay more for luxury housing.

Trends Driving the Market

If you are working with college student rentals, there is a pretty good chance that you have seen the competitiveness for your units rise in recent years. You have probably also increased the rent on these units as well.

What you are seeing in the market is supply and demand in action caused by too few beds for the number of students arriving at college every year. To put this into perspective, the Wall Street Journal cited that many of the roughly 3 million high schoolers graduating every year are looking for higher education. Another factor driving luxury off campus units is a growing population of parents that are ?willing to pay for luxury amenities,? according to the Wall Street Journal.

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Remember that time when your heater broke when you were a student? That is a thing of the past at these complexes.

Lazy river swimming pools, custom furniture, exclusive clubhouses, and granite counter tops. Luxurious to say the least. These builders are beating out the competition on the amenities they can offer to students that go far and above the typical college rental experience.

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Even though these are nice options for college students, they are just that, options. These units are being built for the few, rather than the many.

But the underlying trend of student tenants desiring nicer living conditions remains true. An off campus house is no longer just a place to crash after a long day of classes. It is a home.

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Now, are you going to compete with these builders on features? Probably not, but in the same way property managers can learn from the best aspects of dorm life, these luxury student housing development experiments can give smaller property managers insight into what students really want in their off campus house without the risky investment. In all likelihood, you won?t be adding a tanning bed to your unit anytime soon, but here are three amenities every college student finds valuable in their off campus house.



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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Wiz Khalifa And Amber Rose 'Rise Above' Haters On O.N.I.F.C.

'The majority of the hate that could affect me the most would come from my circle of people who I respect the most,' Wiz tells MTV News.
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Talaash Aamir's Search For Success Again Article - Arts And ...

The month of December seems to preserve its best for Bollywood superstar Aamir Khan. After tasting stupendous success in the form of the mega-blockbuster 3 Idiots and surprise hit Delhi Belly, both being released in December, will Aamir Khan be 3rd time lucky with his latest venture Talaash?

Author: David Daniel
Talaash - The Answer Lies Within is a Bollywood suspense thriller involving a cop, a housewife and a prostitute whose lives get entangled in mysterious and unexpected ways. The film is being directed by Reema Kagti and it stars Aamir Khan, Rani Mukerji and Kareena Kapoor. The film has already created quite a buzz among cinegoers with its unconventional promos, something that Aamir has mastered over the years. And going by track record of the film?s leading male protagonist, Talaash is all set to become a hit even before its release.

The film is releasing on 30 November, 2012 and as per numerology, its ruling number turns out to be 1. So it would not be wrong to assume that Aamir is once again here to rule the box-office with Talaash. The film was made at an estimated cost of Rs.40 crores and after having already sold its satellite rights for approximately the same amount, Talaash is a break-even film even before its release. And the fact that the film is releasing in more number of screens overseas than even his biggest hit 3 Idiots, also acts in favour of it.

Moreover, Aamir?s own stars are also there to add to the chances of the film?s success. As per astrology, Aamir is a Piscean by birth. Pisceans are very creative by nature and it is this characteristic of Aamir Khan that lands that killer punch to his roles and eventually his films. Pisceans are also more social than the other zodiac signs, according to astrology, and are also quite popular, another characteristic which is quite evident in Talaash?s leading man Aamir Khan.

And that is not all. Aamir was born on 14 March, 1965 and according to Indian numerology, his ruling number is 5. People ruled by the number 5 are very artistic in nature and they constantly strive for excellence at work, characteristics now synonymous to Aamir Khan and also the reason for his films? success. Numerology also suggests that people with the ruling number 5 are pretty flexible, love challenges and possess great potential for success. They also possess a keen eye for details without losing sight of the bigger picture, yet another of Aamir?s many qualities that call for his films? success.

So, according to Indian astrology, the stars are all in favour of Talaash - The Answer Lies Within, much thanks to its leading man Aamir Khan. The near future seems quite bright for the film and come this Friday, 30 November, 2012, we shall see the stars rising for Aamir Khan, yet again!

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